How can I be a good Christian husband if I am not attracted to my overweight wife?
Let me clarify some things, so people understand what exactly I am asking. I am 30, my wife is 28 (we have been married for 10 years) I love my wife and I married her for reasons beyond physical attraction. I am not contemplating divorce or sex outside our marriage. My wife and I have sex maybe 1 or 2 times a month, sometimes once every couple months. The more weight she gains the less I am attracted to her and the less I approach her for sex. She has gained about 50-60lbs since we have been married.I have made it clear to her that I am not attracted to big/thick/overweight women. I still love her and am willing to “stick it out” with her until death do us part; I am content with what God has given me.

The problem is not with me because as I said, I am content. The problem is that my wife is unhappy because my shows of affection have basically disappeared. She is a Christian woman, but apparently this is not her view of a healthy marriage. She is not content with my affection toward her or lack there of, or our sex life. I have bought her many Christian books to bring her closer to God and hopefully expose the gluttony that she is a slave to. She has tried countless diets and work out programs, but she is just not consistent. She will lose maybe 10lbs and then gain it back. I care about her feelings and want her to still feel loved, so sometimes I force affection, but she sees through it.

I guess I am not good at showing affection if the emotion isn’t behind it. I have told her that if she thinks we don’t have enough sex, she could always approach me for sex and I would never turn her down as I would never want her to turn me down if I really wanted it. She doesn’t see that as a legitimate option. She believes a man at my age should be craving sex frequently (probably a few times a week at least). That is probably reasonable, but I purposely suppressed my sexual appetite by focusing on God to avoid pornography and worse infidelity. She has suggested that I workout with her to motivate her, but I work 5 days a week at odd night/graveyard type hours, I am trying to write a book and go back to school. At some point doesn’t she need to take responsibility for her own body,happiness, and contentment or am I not doing enough as a husband? Is it unreasonable for me to ask my wife to approach me for sex if she wants it and I am not showing any intention of initiating? Any help would be appreciated.

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1. Courageous (Workout Mix + 136 BPM)          
2. Blessings (Workout Mix + 135 BPM)         
3. Light Up The Sky (Workout Mix + 145 BPM)     
4. Strong Enough (Workout Mix + 160 BPM)     
5. Your Great Name (Workout Mix + 148 BPM)     
6. God’s Not Dead (Like a Lion) [Workout Mix + 140 BPM]     
7. This Is The Stuff (Workout Mix + 127 BPM)     
8. Our God (Workout Mix + 128 BPM)     
9. Glorious Day (Living He Loved Me) [Workout Mix + 130 BPM]     
10. Praise You In This Storm (Workout Mix + 160 BPM)     
11. I Will Follow (Workout Mix + 127 BPM)     
12. Lead Me (Workout Mix + 132 BPM)

Program Info

Body Revival
(34 mins)
A cardio workout that blast some major calories gives you the energy needed all day for your busy church and home schedules.

Power & Praise
(37mins)
Resistance bands will help add muscle to the body while burning fat. Stretch in the Spirit: Flexibility is a key part of being physically fit. This will allow you to become more limber and also ease stress.

Core Revelation
Summer is officially here and who doesn’t want to go to the beach and show off nice flat abs. Gospel Glory: Advanced cardio workout focusing on slimming your hips thighs and belly.

Strength & Spirit
Combination of cardio and strength training. 2 for 1.

Included with the videos are: a Total Transformation 30day guide, Feed Your Body, Feed Your Soul Nutrition Guide, Body Gospel Training Cards, Body Gospel Bands, 24/7 Body Gospel Online Access, plus 3 bonus gifts.

Now is the perfect time to get your body as well as your mind in tuned for what God has planned for you. I will leave you with a bible verse.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20:
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.

Body Gospel definitely is a mind, body, spirit connector. This unique program’s workouts are set to gospel music and includes a nutritional plan that will help you meet your fitness goals. The program integrates fitness and nutrition with a faith based workout.

What comes with Body Gospel workout program?

6 Faith Based Workouts
Body Revival – 35 minute Cardio Workout
Power & Praise – 35 minute Interval Training Workout
Strength & Spirit – 55 minute Strength Training and Cardio Class
Core Revelation – 20 minute Core Workout
Gospel Glory – 45 minute Cardio Workout
Stretch in the Spirit – 10 minute Stretch and Flexibility Class

Total Transformation Guide
Schedule for 30 Day workout program, inspirational journal and daily scripture.

Nutritional Guide
Learn fast easy recipes that will fill your temple with nutrients.

Body Gospel Training Cards
On the go cards you can take with you anywhere, anytime.

Body Gospel Bands
Bands for strength and resistance training.

Bonuses
Stepping in the Spirit: 20 minute walking workout set to gospel hits.
3Day Kickstart Plan – Lose up to 3 pounds in three days by following this nutritional and workout plan.
BodyGospel Live – 30 minute cardio workout.

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